The Enneagram
So, new to Enneagram Types? No worries, I encourage you to dive headfirst into self-discovery and gain a new perspective about self and about others. The hidden strengths of each enneagram and how they work with each other to help us better understand ourselves, are hidden gems within themselves.
To give you a little help, Dr. Tom LaHue and Beatrice Chestnut both are experts on this type of personality typing which helps you to understand how you see yourself and others and most importantly, how to engage and interact with yourself and others more meaningfully and productively. Getting along is what it’s all about, right?
Me personally, I am an Enneagram 4, a TRUE Enneagram 4. One of the most important aspects of my personality is self-expression, being understood, and being unique. If you are an Enneagram 4 and you are reading this post, you know what I mean.
While on this journey with me, I want to share that each of us are unique and special, no doubt. We ALL have special gifts and talents. And it’s up to us to introduce them to the collective.
Having said that, our personalities can get in our own way. Learning enneagram types has been beneficial to me in gaining knowledge on how others receive encouragement, criticism and for some their triggers. Each type has its own specific traits, but they also can bounce off into another enneagram and this is where I want to share my excitement in learning the hidden strengths each enneagram type has and how we all become strength to one another. I will dive headfirst into each one. See if any of these resonate with you.
The Reformer – Type 1
With access to the wisdom of Type 7 (The Enthusiast). A Reformer can learn to balance their inner critic with a sense of joy, spontaneity, and embracing life’s pleasures. Also tapping into Type 7 they can learn to just let go and just be.
The Helper – Type 2
Tapping into the assertiveness of Type 8 (The Challenger) is what 2’s need. They can learn to set healthy boundaries and assert their needs. 2’s can wear themselves out always trying to be assistance to others, and by setting boundaries, they don’t get resentful towards others who don’t show appreciation for their helpful nature.
The Achiever – Type 3
3’s can lean into the inner calm of Type 9 (The Peacemaker). By slowing down and being present, they can find inner peace. 3’s are status seekers, and they are always “on” and in always wanting to achieve they can cause a bit of unnecessary chaos. So, lessons from 9’s can be beneficial.
The Individualist – Type 4
I know this one too well. 4’s have a tendency to get really get down on themselves, because sometimes they don’t feel understood, and 4’s carry a lot of emotions in a bottomless bag. 4’s can harness the optimism of Type 1 (The Reformer). They can learn to focus on practical solutions and a sense of purpose. 4’s also can learn cognitive distortion strategies and tap into their creativity to boost sprits as well, when we don’t feel special.
Speaking from experience (4w5) I know that my emotions are going to show up in every situation, so not having unrealistic expectations from the start in any situation, and just letting it evolve helps immensely.
The Investigator -Type 5
5’s have the potential to embody the fearlessness of Type 8 (The Challenger). They can confront their anxieties and engage more assertively with the world. 5’s are the “thinkers” getting out of their heads and doing something helps them realize they don’t have to be the world’s problems solvers.
The Loyalist – Type 6
6’s are like 2’s, they can wear themselves out… questions, so many questions???? So responsible! Cultivating the inner wisdom of a Type 4, they can learn to trust their own unique perspectives and creativity. Lean into their own inner voice.
The Enthusiast – Type 7
7’s are the Peter Pan’s of the Enneagram, they are not going to miss out! So, they will get themselves into situations before doing the research. 7’s can develop the wisdom of Type 5 (The Investigator). They can explore deeper knowledge and inner reflection. 7’s avoidance of pain could be the culprit for lack of research as well,
The Challenger -Type 8
8’s are headstrong to say the least. 8’s could access the healthy outlook of Type 2 (The Helper). They can become more compassionate and caring. They never want to appear weak in any situation, but sometimes it’s totally ok not knowing everything and not trying to control everything and everyone. Give yourself a break.
The Peacemaker – Type 9
9’s hate conflict, they can draw on the energy and assertiveness of Type 3 (The Achiever). They can set goals and take assertive action in their lives. They are natural born mediators, but neglect to take the action needed in their own lives.
A Closer Look at Each Type
“Ones are idealists, driven by a sense of purpose, ethics, and a strong inner critic that evaluates everything. They long to make the world better by adhering to high standards and principles.” – Don Richard Riso
“Twos are motivated by their need to be loved and appreciated. They’re often nurturing and giving, but they can struggle with overdoing for others and neglecting their own needs.” – Helen Palmer
“Threes are success-oriented, often ambitious, and driven to achieve goals. They can be image-conscious and value efficiency and recognition.” – Russ Hudson
“Fours are driven by a search for identity and authenticity. They value individuality, creativity, and self-expression, and they often have a deep well of emotions.” – The Enneagram Institute
“Fives are driven by a need to understand and acquire knowledge. They can be analytical, independent, and prefer to conserve their energy.” – Ichazo and Naranjo
“Sixes seek safety and security. They can be loyal, responsible, and often anticipate potential problems. They value trust and reliability.” – Riso and Hudson
“Sevens are motivated by a need for variety and experiences. They value spontaneity, freedom, and positivity. They often fear being trapped or limited.” – Don Richard Riso
“Eights are driven by a desire for control and autonomy. They value strength, assertiveness, and can be protective of the vulnerable.” – Palmer and Daniels
“Nines seek harmony and inner peace. They can be easygoing, accepting, and sometimes avoid conflict. They value connection and comfort.” – Ichazo and Naranjo
In Conclusion
As you’ve explored the hidden qualities of each Enneagram type, I encourage you to embark on your own journey of self-discovery. Take an enneagram test and take some time to reflect on how these hidden qualities may resonate with you or those around you. Understanding the deeper layers of your personality can lead to greater self-acceptance, improved relationships, and personal growth. Whether you’re already familiar with the Enneagram or just beginning your exploration, embrace the opportunity to cultivate your hidden strengths and share your insights with others. How will you use this newfound knowledge to enhance your life and the lives of those you connect with?
We’ll chat soon,
